Learn what she cares about and ask questions If you’re pretending to be something you’re not, she’s going to see through this quickly. If you don’t understand something she’s talking about, don’t try to pretend . In fact, it’ll probably work in your favor to straight-up say you’re not familiar with the topic. Set aside your hangups about having to be “masculine” for a moment and be open to learning new things. It makes for some interesting and engaging conversation...